How to Care for Friendship Plant

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There are a few things in life that bring joy, serenity, and a feeling of accomplishment all at the same time. Caring for a plant, watching it grow, and marveling at its beauty is one such thing. When it comes to houseplants, a particular favorite amongst enthusiasts is the Friendship Plant.

Its common name perfectly encapsulates the relationship you’ll develop with this plant, as it provides a low-maintenance friendship that rewards you with rich, verdant foliage and unexpected blooms.Also, here is a detailed article on how to propagate Friendship Plant

With proper care, propagation of the Friendship Plant (also known as Pilea involucrata) is straightforward, making it an ideal plant to share with others, further spreading the love of greenery.

Care Basics Of The Friendship Plant

To provide a quick snapshot of how to nurture your Friendship Plant, let’s start with a table that outlines the basic care requirements.

LightBright, indirect light
WaterRegular, but let soil dry between
Temperature65°F – 75°F (18°C – 24°C)
Soil pHSlightly acidic, 6.0 – 7.0
Soil TypeWell-draining potting mix
Fertilizer RequirementsBalanced, half-strength monthly
PruningPeriodically, for bushy appearance
Growth PeriodFast in growing season (Spring-Fall)
Difficulty LevelEasy
Care EssentialsWatering can, Pruning shears, Fertilizer, Pot with drainage, Thermometer

Lighting and Temperature

A. Light Requirements for The Friendship Plant

Like many houseplants, the Friendship Plant appreciates a spot where it can enjoy bright, indirect light. These conditions mimic the natural understory habitat where this plant originates. The Friendship Plant is adaptable and can tolerate less light than some houseplants, but growth may slow and the leaves might lose some of their vibrant color in low light. Direct, harsh sunlight can scorch the leaves, leading to browning or yellowing. Therefore, it’s important to strike a balance, providing plenty of light but avoiding strong, direct rays.

B. Types of Light Exposure

There are essentially three types of light exposure that you should be familiar with when considering the needs of your Friendship Plant: direct, indirect, and low light.

  1. Direct Light: This is the intense light that comes straight from the sun. As mentioned earlier, this can be detrimental to your Friendship Plant, causing damage to its delicate leaves.
  2. Indirect Light: This is sunlight that has been diffused or dispersed in some way, perhaps by bouncing off a wall, filtering through a curtain, or diffusing through a sheer blind. This is the ideal type of light for your Friendship Plant.
  3. Low Light: These are areas that are far from windows or in shadow for the majority of the day. While the Friendship Plant is somewhat adaptable to lower light conditions, it will not thrive in these areas in the long term.
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C. Providing Proper Light to the Friendship Plant

The easiest way to provide the perfect lighting for your Friendship Plant is by placing it near a north or east-facing window covered with sheer curtains. This allows ample light to reach the plant while preventing direct sun exposure. If you don’t have this sort of window available, a well-lit room with artificial lighting can also work. If you notice that the leaves are losing their vibrant color or the plant becomes leggy (tall with large spaces between leaves), it could be a sign that the plant is not receiving enough light and should be moved to a brighter location.

Planting Techniques

The Friendship Plant is not overly demanding when it comes to planting, but there are a few techniques and requirements you should keep in mind to ensure it thrives.

A. How to Plant the Friendship Plant

Start by choosing a pot with good drainage to prevent waterlogged soil. Fill the pot halfway with a well-draining potting mix. You can create your own mix by combining regular potting soil with perlite or sand to improve drainage. Remove the Friendship Plant from its nursery pot, taking care not to damage its root system. Place the plant in the new pot and fill around the plant with more potting mix, pressing it down lightly to remove any air pockets. The soil surface should be at the same level as it was in the nursery pot.

B. Location for Planting the Friendship Plant

Remember, location is a key factor in plant health. Choose a spot for your Friendship Plant that meets its light and temperature needs. The ideal spot is a well-lit room with a steady temperature between 65°F and 75°F. Avoid placing your plant near drafts, air vents, or heaters as these can create sudden temperature changes that the Friendship Plant dislikes. Bathrooms or kitchens can often be good locations because they tend to have higher humidity, which the Friendship Plant appreciates.

Ensure the location you choose is pet-friendly if you have furry friends, as the Friendship Plant can cause digestive upset if ingested. While not highly toxic, it’s still better to be safe and keep it out of reach if you have curious pets.


When it comes to watering, the Friendship Plant prefers consistent moisture, but there’s a fine line between keeping the soil adequately moist and overwatering.

Water Requirements

The Friendship Plant likes evenly moist soil but definitely not soggy or waterlogged conditions. You should water thoroughly, letting the water drain out of the bottom of the pot, and then allow the top inch of the soil to dry out before watering again.

How Often to Water

The frequency of watering your Friendship Plant depends on various factors such as the size of the plant, the pot’s material, the time of year, and the overall environmental conditions. However, a general rule of thumb is to water it once the top inch of soil feels dry to the touch. This might be approximately once a week during the warmer growing season (spring and summer), but the plant will likely need less frequent watering during the cooler dormant months (fall and winter).

Signs of Overwatering and Under-Watering

Knowing the signs of both overwatering and under-watering is vital to ensuring your Friendship Plant remains healthy:

  1. Overwatering: Overwatering can lead to root rot, which can be fatal for your plant. Signs of overwatering include yellowing leaves, wilting despite wet soil, and a general appearance of being “overly full” with drooping stems.
  2. Under-Watering: Conversely, an under-watered Friendship Plant might exhibit dry, crispy leaves, particularly around the edges, or leaves may droop or wilt. The soil may pull away from the pot’s edges, a clear sign of under-watering.
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Tips for Proper Watering Techniques

  1. Deep Watering: Ensure you water your Friendship Plant thoroughly, so the water reaches the root zone. This encourages the plant to develop a deep and healthy root system.
  2. Morning Watering: Aim to water your plant in the morning. This gives the plant time to absorb the water before the higher temperatures of midday cause evaporation.
  3. Avoid Wet Leaves: Try to water the soil, not the leaves. Wet leaves can lead to fungal diseases.
  4. Adjust as Needed: Be prepared to adjust your watering routine based on the season and the plant’s appearance.

Soil and Fertilization

The right soil and regular fertilization play a crucial role in the health and vigor of your Friendship Plant.

Soil Requirements

The Friendship Plant prefers a well-draining, peat-based potting mix. A mix designed for African Violets or a general-purpose houseplant mix will typically work well. You can also prepare your own blend by mixing two parts peat moss, one part loamy garden soil, and one part perlite or coarse sand.

Importance of Proper Soil Drainage

Proper soil drainage is essential for preventing waterlogged soil and the associated risk of root rot. This is why a well-draining soil mix and a pot with drainage holes are vital. The perlite or sand in your potting mix helps increase the drainage, keeping your Friendship Plant’s roots happily aerated and not waterlogged.

Fertilization Requirements and Tips

Your Friendship Plant will benefit from regular feeding during its active growing season. Use a balanced, water-soluble fertilizer, diluted to half the strength recommended on the package. Feed your plant once a month from spring through early fall. Here are a few tips to ensure proper fertilization:

  1. Don’t Overfertilize: More is not always better. Overfertilization can damage the roots and cause leaf burn.
  2. Fertilize During Active Growth: The Friendship Plant generally doesn’t need to be fertilized in the winter months when growth naturally slows.
  3. Water Before Fertilizing: Always water your plant thoroughly before applying fertilizer. This helps prevent the fertilizer from burning the plant’s roots.

Temperature and Humidity

Your Friendship Plant will thrive when given the right temperature and humidity conditions. Thankfully, these conditions are easy to achieve and maintain indoors.

Optimal Temperature Range

The Friendship Plant prefers a relatively stable temperature range of 65°F to 75°F (18°C to 24°C). While it can tolerate a bit cooler temperatures, it doesn’t appreciate sudden changes or drafts. Avoid placing your plant near doors, drafty windows, or air vents.

Humidity Requirements

This tropical native loves humidity. A relative humidity of about 50% or higher is ideal, though the plant can adapt to lower humidity levels. Keep in mind, the higher the humidity, the happier your Friendship Plant will be.

Adjusting Temperature and Humidity for Optimal Growth

Maintaining the temperature for your Friendship Plant is relatively easy; just keep it away from extremes. For humidity, there are several strategies you can employ if your home’s air is dry:

  1. Misting: Regularly spray your plant with a mister. This is a quick and easy way to increase humidity.
  2. Pebble Tray: Fill a tray with pebbles and add water until it almost covers the pebbles. Place your plant on top. As the water evaporates, it increases the humidity around the plant.
  3. Humidifier: Using a room humidifier is an effective way to increase humidity, particularly in winter when indoor air tends to be dry.

Pests and Diseases

Despite being relatively resilient, the Friendship Plant can occasionally fall prey to a few pests and diseases. The key to handling these is early detection and treatment.

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Common Pests and Diseases

  1. Pests: Aphids, mealybugs, and spider mites are the most common pests. Aphids and mealybugs can be seen with the naked eye, while spider mites might only become evident when you see fine webs on the plant or yellow speckling on the leaves.
  2. Diseases: The main diseases affecting the Friendship Plant are fungal and are often related to overwatering or high humidity. These include root rot and leaf spot. Symptoms to look out for include yellowing leaves, black spots on the leaves, and a general decline in the plant’s health.

Prevention and Treatment Methods

Prevention is always better than cure. Maintain the correct watering practices, ensure good airflow around your plant, and inspect it regularly to prevent pest infestations and diseases.

  1. Pests: For small infestations, removing pests by hand or washing the plant with a gentle stream of water can be effective. For larger infestations, use an insecticidal soap or a solution of dish soap and water. Spray this on all parts of the plant, repeating every few days until the pests are gone.
  2. Diseases: Overwatering and poor air circulation are common causes of disease. Water your plant properly and ensure it has plenty of air circulation. Prune any affected leaves and treat the plant with a fungicide if necessary.


Pruning is an essential part of Friendship Plant care that keeps the plant looking its best and promotes healthy growth.

Reasons for Pruning Friendship Plants

  1. Control Size and Shape: The Friendship Plant is known for its vigorous growth. Pruning helps maintain a manageable size and encourages a bushier growth habit.
  2. Remove Damaged or Diseased Foliage: Pruning is a good way to remove leaves that are damaged, diseased, or yellowing.
  3. Encourage Fresh Growth: Pruning stimulates new growth and rejuvenates older plants.

How to Prune Friendship Plants

  1. When to Prune: The best time to prune is in the spring or early summer when the plant is in its active growth phase.
  2. What to Prune: Cut off any dead or yellowing leaves. You can also prune back leggy stems to promote bushier growth. Aim to remove about a third of the plant’s growth.
  3. How to Prune: Always use clean, sharp scissors or pruning shears to prevent the spread of disease. Make your cut at a 45-degree angle for the best results.

Recommended Varieties

Several varieties of the Friendship Plant are particularly popular due to their distinctive appearance and growth habits:

  1. Pilea involucrata ‘Moon Valley’: This variety boasts textured leaves that add an extra level of interest. It’s named after the craters and valleys on the moon that its leaves’ texture mimics.
  2. Pilea involucrata ‘Norfolk’: This variety has a more compact growth habit than others, making it a great choice for smaller spaces. Its deep green leaves have a beautiful metallic sheen.
  3. Pilea involucrata ‘Dark Mystery’: As the name suggests, this variety has deep, almost black-green leaves. It’s a stunning addition to any houseplant collection.

Common Problems Faced in Care and Maintenance of the Friendship Plant

Despite its general ease of care, you might face some challenges when growing a Friendship Plant:

  1. Yellowing Leaves: This could be a sign of overwatering or poor drainage. Adjust your watering schedule and ensure your pot has adequate drainage.
  2. Leggy Growth: If your plant becomes tall and spindly with large spaces between leaves, it’s likely not receiving enough light. Move it to a brighter location.
  3. Lack of Growth: A plant that isn’t growing as expected could be in too small a pot, lacking nutrients, or not receiving enough light. Consider repotting, fertilizing, or moving the plant to a brighter location.
  4. Leaf Drop: If leaves start falling from your Friendship Plant, it may be due to a sudden change in temperature or a drafty location. Move your plant to a more stable environment.

Tips for Better Care

Here are some key tips that can help you nurture your Friendship Plant to its best potential. These are divided into basic and advanced tips to cater to all levels of gardening experience.

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Basic Level Tips

  1. Understand Its Light Needs: The Friendship Plant prefers bright, indirect light. Too much direct sun can burn the leaves, while too little light can cause leggy growth.
  2. Water Correctly: Overwatering is a common issue. Allow the top inch of soil to dry out before watering again, and always ensure your pot has good drainage.
  3. Don’t Ignore Humidity: As a tropical plant, the Friendship Plant appreciates a humid environment. Misting, a pebble tray, or a humidifier can help achieve this.

Advanced Level Tips

  1. Regular Feeding: During the growing season, feed your plant monthly with a balanced, water-soluble fertilizer, diluted to half strength.
  2. Pruning for Better Growth: Regular pruning can help control the size of your plant, encourage bushier growth, and remove any diseased or dying leaves.
  3. Spot Pest Issues Early: Regularly inspect your plant for common pests like aphids and spider mites. The sooner you spot them, the easier they are to treat.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Why is my Friendship Plant’s leaves yellowing?

Yellow leaves often indicate overwatering or poor drainage. Cut back on watering and ensure your pot has good drainage. If the problem persists, you may need to repot your plant in fresh, well-draining soil.

Can the Friendship Plant tolerate low light?

While the Friendship Plant can adapt to lower light conditions, it won’t thrive in these conditions long-term. If your plant is in a low light area and isn’t showing new growth or its leaves are losing color, consider moving it to a brighter location.

How often should I fertilize my Friendship Plant?

During the growing season (spring and summer), feed your plant monthly with a balanced, water-soluble fertilizer, diluted to half the recommended strength.

Is the Friendship Plant safe for pets?

While not highly toxic, the Friendship Plant can cause digestive upset if ingested. It’s best to keep this plant out of reach of pets.

How can I increase humidity for my Friendship Plant?

There are several ways to increase humidity, such as misting the leaves, using a pebble tray, or using a room humidifier.

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